Thursday, April 06, 2006

Life's Frustrations

If your frustrated and unsure where your life is headed.
Give yourself the chance to become more then what you think you can become.
1. Never assume. Know before you do it.
2. Understand what consequences it may have. If it's wrong don't do it!
3. Self management is necessary.
4. You must display Self Control.
5. Respect yourself and others.
Always have faith in everything you do. Because whether you believe it or not the Lord Jesus Christ walks with you. He will love and bless you, all you need to do is ask.
By: Michael A. Mata

Monday, April 03, 2006

What makes a good man turn bad? read more...

What makes a good man turn bad? This question while controversial, it is always brewing in the back of women’s heads. My answer is, mostly all women take things for granted, not understanding what it means to care and maintain a current relationship in simple gears. Some women will start to imagine to themselves and say, “I wish my man could be more like him, look like him or be novelisticly romantic.” However, the truth is, men can't be that way all the time. Lets take this in five easy steps:

1. When you first met, it is all about the romance.
2. After getting to know each other, you marry.
3. Once married, the children will come.
4. The women will dedicate their time to the kids and themselves. The husband will become second best.
5. Women will almost stop have sexual relation with their man.

This creates a problem in most marriages because men will start feeling left out. The good man just became combative, wanting more out of the woman. Which, after awhile good men start to look the other way. Eventually, he will leave her or play the cheating game. Do not become those women who get cheated on. Unvictimize yourself by going the extra mile. No one said marriage was easy. However, if you know you have a good man show him some gratitude. Go the extra mile and never forget why you fell in love in the first place. Stay true to yourself and be attractive and available only for him.